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Frame 6: Bumpers

 

In bowling, as in life, we inevitably encounter moments where failure seems certain. As discussed before, hopeless situations are inevitable, and failure, at some point, is almost guaranteed. Yet, these moments don’t define us; rather, it’s how we recover that matters most. By embracing setbacks and accepting that not every frame will be a win, we can find unexpected resilience within ourselves.

 

But what if, in those moments, we had a little extra support? What if there were tools to keep us on track, even when we’re off our game? In bowling, bumpers—also known as gutter guards or lane rails—are barriers that can be raised or lowered along the edges of the lane. They help to prevent bowling balls from rolling into the gutters, ensuring that even beginners are likely to knock down some pins and find more enjoyment in the game.

 

 

Bumpers are often used by children or novice bowlers who may struggle to keep the ball on the lane. When raised, they act as guardrails, gently guiding the ball back toward the center if it veers off course. This helps prevent gutter balls, allowing players to focus on improving their technique without worrying about rolling into the gutter. I can attest, however, that even with bumpers, there's no guarantee of being gutter-ball-free!

 

For us today, bumpers serve as a reminder that there are tools that can ensure that everyone, regardless of skill level, can enjoy the game.

 

[On an unrelated note, a fun variation I've tried is that when the bumpers are up, every throw is required to use them! While the bumpers usually aid inexperienced bowlers, this version makes it tricky and unpredictable for everyone!]

 

Realistic Expectations in Growth

 

Bumpers in bowling offer a poignant metaphor for starting with realistic expectations and building upon basic skills. Just as bumpers provide a safety net, allowing less-experienced bowlers to keep the ball in play, setting realistic goals and embracing small victories paves the way for success in life and work.

 

Choosing to use bumpers requires humility—it acknowledges one's current limitations and the need for support. Similarly, in life, accepting our starting point and approaching challenges with humility allows us to set realistic expectations and focus on gradual improvement.

 

However, relying too heavily on bumpers, or staying within the comfort zone, can inhibit growth. While bumpers offer security, they also limit the potential for real progress. In life, remaining in the familiar might feel safe, but it can prevent personal and professional development.

 

Humility and Courage: Bowling Without Bumpers

For followers who may lack experience or specific skills, choosing to bowl without bumpers demands both humility and courage. It means accepting the possibility of failure but embracing the challenge of venturing outside of your comfort zone. Growth comes not just from success, but from the lessons learned in failure.

 

"Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts." – Winston Churchill

 

Choosing to push beyond what’s safe fosters resilience, adaptability, and confidence. It allows individuals to unlock their potential by taking calculated risks.

 

Finding Balance: Humility and Ambition, Safety and Growth

Ultimately, the choice between using bumpers or not is a balance between short-term success and long-term growth. Bumpers may provide temporary success, but stepping outside of that safety net opens the door to greater development.

 

By starting with realistic expectations and building upon basic skills, we lay the foundation for future success. But real growth happens when we leave our comfort zone, embrace challenges, and confront our short-comings head-on.

 

The Zen of Bumpers

If you need an advantage to stay encouraged in your journey, know that you're not alone. Bumpers exist for a reason—they testify that everyone sometimes needs a little extra support. And sometimes, just knowing that bumpers are available is enough to inspire us to push forward without them. Sometimes knowing they're there and electing to push forward without them can be exhilarating!

 

Whether you choose to use them or not, it’s important to recognize when you’re doing something hard. Struggling is okay. It’s part of the process.

 

"Life begins at the end of your comfort zone." – Neale Donald Walsch

 

The challenge is finding the balance between ego and humility. Do you avoid bumpers out of pride, do you embrace the challenge because you're ready for growth, or can you use them when you need to?